when looking for replacements for the fronts- if you are having problems with speakers "surviving" your listening style, there are a few things you can do to help out your situation.
1. see if you can cram one of these
http://www.partsexpress.com/pe/showdetl ... er=260-782 foam baffles behind the speakers when you install them. This will create a somewhat-sealed enclosure for the speakers to operate in, rather than the open-baffle behavior you usually get with dash/door mounted speakers. The small enclosure will dampen the motion of the woofer while playing deeper frequencies- thus, reducing the likallyhood that you cause mechanical damage (coil slapping magnets, or busting suspension components).
2. Don't neccessarily choose your woofer soley based on it's "rated" power... look for voice coil diameter specifications on the woofer. diameter is really the only way to significantly increase thermal capacity at a given level of output. (some might argue this, saying that the number of layers on the coil, or the coils depth can also do this.. but remember, adding layers, doesn't increase surface area, so it doesn't increase it's ability to remove heat any faster, more layers, can help deal with intermitant *bursts* of power better, but do nothing for continuas power handling. When voice coils are made longer- they can handle more power, but at the cost of efficiancy- most people turn up the volume based on how loud they want it, not based on how many watts they want to pump, so loosing efficiancy at the gain of power handling doesn't get you anywhere.) The other advantage to larger coils- is less distortion. Larger voice coils respond faster to signal, generating a more accurate sound wave based on the input. Also, larger coils support the cone more evenly, leaving less room for cone breakup at higher frequencies.(ask your local seller for a transient responce graph on the speakers you are interested in, they will scratch their heads, hehe.)
3. As we all are already mentioning, a "bass blocking" component should be installed... But.. don't waste your money on anything that is actually being marketed as a "bass blocker."... That would be supporting a product that is made with the intention of keeping the masses stupid. Not to mention, when they sell a component under such a name, they jack the price way up. (often over $10 each).. Just go to an electronics store and buy a non-polerized 100V rated capacitor anwhere from 300 to 500 microfared, (aprox 120-80hz variation from 300 to 500 microfared, respectivally for crossover point) Or order em online. Can easily get these for around $5 each. Install them in series with the driver.
Hope that helps out a little more. Had some free time tonight so the post got a little long.