Front knuckle bearing: SKF HK3016VP
Front wheel bearing seal: Timken 710168. This is the one that installs behind the wheel bearings.
Front axle seal: Timken 710516.
Knuckle seal: SKF 20875. THIS ONE IS IMPORTANT. I couldn't find this number anywhere. Every supplier lists 710527 Timken/National. This is nonsense. 20875 is the correct part number for the knuckle seal with the flanged cup. I finally found the Honda part number for a later Passport which cross referenced to this.
Rear axle seal: Timken 225230
Steering center link: Mevotech 80906. This one has 2 holes, not 3. I believe the 3 hole is used for trucks with a steering damper, but I'm not sure. You need to match what you have.
Ball joints: Moog K9042 (upper) and K9465 (lower)
Tie rods: Moog ES2953 (outer) and ES2954 (inner)
Tie rod adjusters: Mevotech MES3090S. I really only needed the left hand nuts from these, but it's cheaper just to buy the whole thing than the nuts by themselves. Note: the left hand thread tie rods come with right hand jam nuts, because THAT makes sense.
Upper control arms: RK621389 (right) and RK621390 (left) i gambled on these because I couldn't find cross shafts for my Trooper. These are listed for mid 90s Rodeos and Pickups but I found that the part numbers for the cross shafts matched up. Since I need cross shafts and bushings I bought the loaded arm. I didn't use the pre-installed ball joints, though.
Lower control arm bushings: Mevotech MK9872. These are listed for a 2000s Trooper but match perfectly AND save you money over buying the specific first gen bushings.
Steering box rebuild kit: Gates 348434. You only use a handful of o rings and seals from this kit, so it must be for multiple vehicles. It's still cheaper than buying a reman box.
Driveshaft center support ("carrier bearing"): B/A 1014241
U joints: Spicer 51515x, all 5 u joints are the same. I wouldn't recommend these, as apparently Spicer rebrands cheaper joints like a lot of brands do now. Fortunately, the GMB marked joints I received were made in Japan, so I used them anyway. They're a whole lot cheaper if you don't pay for the Spicer name though.
CV boots: B/A 1032760 and 1032761
Brake discs: Centric 32043009 (front) 32043004 (rear)
Shocks: KYB KG4613A (front) KG5534 (rear)
The rear bump stops, control arm bolts, and front axle mount bushings I got from Jerry.
I'll add more as I go, but I'm willing to bet this will help. Maybe I need a standalone post to make a sticky some day since this stuff takes a while to find.